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Testosterone Update: Identity through Hair and the Expense of Transness

My hair has taken a beating my entire life so I am particularly protective over it. I was born in the 1990s with curly Jewish hair. It was assumed to merely be wavy because it wasn't until a few years ago when curly hair care reached peak awareness

Relating to Others As A Spiritual Person

Back in New Jersey, I did not tell most people that I was spiritual. Between my parents' inability to support my creativity throughout my life and my now former spouse's disdain toward the metaphysical, I got the message that the things most important to me were the

How to Practice Magic When You're Inconsistent

Maybe I'm just fated to be a cosmic weirdo even among other cosmic weirdos. A big reason I named this blog what I did, with the About angle that I have up as of this writing, is that I feel like a lot of occultists including those who

The Spirituality of My Gender Awakening

I realized that I wasn't cis a week before my 31st birthday, which was exactly 6 months to the day I started writing this article. I now identify as an androgynous person, both male and female. On the most basic level, it is already difficult to carve out